Something to fight about~!
Its been quite a while since I wrote something that actually matters to me but today I’m feeling quite pissed of at a certain incident that happened recently.
I met one of my really good friends online today and she seemed pretty upset. Upon asking her what was bugging her, she started on about how guys can be so stupid and unfair. (hmm, I’d have to agree on that up to a certain level)
Story is, her boyfriend and her had a huge misunderstanding ( err, I was pretty tempted to use the word sexist quarrel ) over her friends and his. Thing is, it is OK for him to hang out with his TOUCHY, CLINGY , SLUTTY, BITCHY girl~friends, but it is NOT ok for her to hang out even to speak to her guy friend who is really close to her.
Where is the fairness in that?? I seem to hear that this often happens in many relationships. Sad right?
My friend insisted that it was not fair and that if she can’t speak to her friend, he can’t speak to his friends. His stupid answer was just a simple ‘no’.
I feel pity for my friend, having to go through all that. They argued for a bit but it was not settled and it sort of left her with a huge question mark as to what she should do.
My advice was, if he refuses to do it, she shouldn’t care as well. Its really unfair. I kind of asked her, if he is really worth all the trouble and she couldn’t answer. A year is still to early to tell if the relationship can work. Is that true? Hmm. I can’t answer that. I just felt really angry.
I don’t think its wrong to mix around. It gets wrong when it gets out of hand. If his girlfriend knows her limits, why can’t she hav guy friends? She can stand there and watch while other people touch her boyfriend.~ She has to " close one eye " because its normal. She on the other hand has never touched any guy. Is it fair? Nope~ I seriously don’t think so.
Sigh. After getting some pretty ear bleeding nagging from me, I hope she knows what to do. Kinda miss her in her fun mode.. Oh well…~
